I never thought I would be here

[RedHeadWife]

I just read your thread and, coming from a woman's POV, I REALLY think you might be a lot further ahead than you are right now & your wife may not have pawned her rings (I can't even believe that sh**t!!) if you had listened to PTD, Cutter, Rob, etc.

**********SHE NO LONGER RESPECTS YOU************

and that is so important to a woman. I'm not trying to be mean or knock you when you're down, but this is the bottom line.

I understand the way you are deciding to go about things, but I have to say, if you were to start standing up to her about her affair and the disrespect she is showing, it may flip her around a bit.

************SHAKE HER UP A LITTLE BIT BY
DOING SOMETHING DIFFERENTLY************

You'll see it time & time again around here -- you're letting her run all over you & you're just kind of going along w/ everything she seems to want -- HOW'S THAT WORKING FOR YOU? Not very well, huh, THEN CHANGE YOUR TACTICS.

I swear you need to go back & read your thread again & all the advice from the very beginning, back up & start over again.