Oof, odog, I feel for you. I had been feeling pretty good myself today until I read your post, and realized we will all be going through this phase..
You'll get to dating when you get there is correct, but I believe you shouldn't hold back and wait until you feel your ready. Why not try to go on a few dates soon? They don't have to wind up being romantic, but you may meet some new friends, and help move you forward towards more healing.
Stay strong man..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."