Hi Opt,

I'm afraid I can't give an unbiased opinion here.

Having a D hanging over my head plus so far two court hearings to finalize the D and a third one on the way.

I have just today decided I can't face a third date. The other two just about did me in.

And yeah it is very difficult to try to work on a marriage with that out there. David said before he left he was working and I wasn't.

I hope things work out for you here!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"