Is your therapist familiar with Einstein and his definition of insanity.....keep doing what you are doing expecting different results...lol. Seriously Ayk, you keep trying and she keeps rebutting your efforts.
She also keeps mentioning your cell and insurance. Have you made steps to get those paid or in your own name? If I was her, I would be thinking "The usually Ayk crud....trying to make me happy and fix my problems while ignoring his". By the way...I did the same thing at first until I had a very heated and belittling conversation with my wife about doing stuff for her and not getting my own crap taken care of. So there in the heat of battle she is telling you something that is bothering her, but you haven't taken care of it.
I am really wondering about your therapist. For two reasons; 1)The suggested breach confidentiality (FYI-Therapy is much better if you realize your problems yourself...not by being told what your problems are) 2) suggesting that you continue on your current path of trying to protect her while she plainly tells you not too.
The path is there Ayk...you just need to open your eyes and see it.