You can do all that - but I think all that is going to do is give you more info to be upset about, honestly. It still boils down to it being time to set a boundary. Every day this is killing you a little more and he is just walking all over you.
Me - 33 Him - 37 2 Children (D-8, S-5) Married 04/28/01 He Left 12/03/05 Updated Story