I think everyone is saying the same thing pretty much. Word choice is just different. It is best to have a happy healthy home with two happy healthy married parents, but when that is not possible, then other things come into consideration.
Of course, I have never been a child of divorce, my parents have been married for 39 years, so.... Guess I haven't been in those shoes.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher