Needing Direction

[awest1217]

You really need to LRT and possibly talk to a L about a specific custody arrangement. You have a right to see D one night each week and the way it works in IN you would pick her up for the visit and X would pick her up after the visit. Then you should get her every other weekend and every other holiday. You are paying support and want to see your child so you have the right to do so.

Second, you have to stop assuming she is with OM. Maybe she is going with friends and just does not want to disclose that to you. You do not know exactly what she is doing so there is no need for you to assume things and get yourself worked up over nothing.

Third, what you asked me. I am the one who has been DBing it for 6 months. H came home for 2 weeks and left again this time I did nothing at all to provoke him leaving. I told him to come back he would have to "win" me back because he broke my heart once and the second time he ground it into powder. I asked him to win me back. You have to wait until X is willing to have you pursue her. I am willing and wanting to be pursued. She is not so you have to leave it at that. Focus on D and yourself.