I'm not sure what there is for her to control in the situation. I talk to him regularly. We are spending the whole weekend together. I will be showing him around the metroplex. She knows he is adamantly opposed to what she is doing and he has let her know that many times.

I am actually really perplexed by the fact that she even wants to have dinner with him as she has written off everyone else in my family for being opposed to what she is doing.

Strange really. He is my BIL on my side of the family, not hers.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...