Do I ever put it on display or treat them any differently? No.
It's there at times though.
I could sit here for a long while explaining all the negative effects divorce has on children. You just can't shield them from every single one. Some are preventable, some are not. You simply have to do your best. So yes I do feel sad in a way for them having to experience that.
I feel they would be much better off having both parents happy, healthy, and together. Unfortunately that can't always happen.
I come from a divorced family and looking back I do see certain things I have struggled with in the past. However, I have never once felt sorry for myself for that reason so....