Thank you everybody. I appreciate everything you say. I kind of did something good today...my H "dropped" by again this morning, with no phone call ahead, I was in the middle of painting the basement and he says, oh sorry guess I should have called first. I said, "Yes, you should have. I would appreciate it if you would start calling before you come over" He apologized and took the kids and left. He was having a grumpy morning and felt he needed family time...that's it. His best friend who is single is busy today and so H is feeling lonely and has nobody. So he thought he could stroll in here and hang out with me to make him feel better. Well for the first time ever, I put a stop to it. He also asked if he could drop off our youngest earlier tonight so he could take the eldest to a hockey game, but I told him I have plans, so he'll have to take both. Ha!
