I'm glad she is going. I hope it goes well. I don't know what to tell you about what to say or do at the MC tonight. We only made it thru 5 sessions which weren't really productive. Neither one of us was really open to the process, it was more going thru the motions. Maybe others with more experience have a different view, but I think you do need to vocalize your side of the issues- validate her feelings, but you need to speak up to. Don't let her make you out to be the one and only bad guy. Best wishes for a productive session tonight- Bunny