Hello everybody. My old thread is close to 200 posts, so I think i'd better start a new one. Thanks Kitti for the title to my new thread. The old ones are:

Am I stupid or do we have a chance?
We may have a chance after all

Major develoment today guys. I have received a letter from my attorney saying that we have a dismissal hearing on Oct 15. I showed it to my H and he said: 'that's your thing, do whatever you want." So now the question is what do I want?

Do I let them dismiss the suit and take a chance on our M or do I file a brief to the judge asking for a postponement so that I can have some time to see how things go? I wish I could just forget it, but OW being still there does not help. On the other hand, I understand that piecing while the suit is hanging over his head may feel difficult for my H.

What do you guys think?


"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"