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K4D #1872089 11/11/09 06:21 PM
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Boundary on another text or email from her then?

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Originally Posted By: are you kidding
Want you and the kids protected financially, not going to be taken advantage of anymore.


She has filed correct?? If so then it's time to separate the personal side of this and this business side of this.

Financial = business. You need to look out for yourself and the kids, that's it right now.


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Not going to respond to anymore of your chastising or attacking texts/emails.


Poof....Why tell her? Just do it.

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Thanks for dropping the kids off after work.

I’ll take S to his appointment.


Good stuff....

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Still want you to have a good day.


Leave out the still want unless you want her to get even more defensive and pisssy It sounds as though you're saying I still want you to have a good day even though you're .....fill in the blank.


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Nope not worried…protecting us financially. I’ll take Brady to his appointment.

Thanks for dropping off the kids tonight.

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Originally Posted By: are you kidding
Nope not worried…protecting us financially.


Leave the above out.



I'll take S to his appt.

Thanks for dropping the kids off.

Have a good day.


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Get a sharpie.

Write:

KISS
on your stupid texting thumbs.



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I’ll take S to his appointment.



Thanks for dropping off the kids tonight.

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It's email Big Jack.

Not rising to her bait, you should've seen the book I wrote, walked around the lot 5 times before I got cooled off.

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AYK,

Less is more.

You don't have to explain your every move to her.

You don't have to answer or defend every single thing she says to you.

Be positve and upbeat....keep it simple and to the point.

smile


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stupid texting thumbs, because they seem to have a mind of their own.

Not really calling you stupid...thinking about that one...no, not really calling you stupid.

Look, you do have alot on your plate.

Keep the answers short and sweet and without anything else. No I or us or you's.

You never want to poke a tiger with a short stick.



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Not so easy doing that you know it.

Psychiatrist told me yesterday just keep showing her somehow you love her.

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