Update

[mscanlon]

I have been telling you it is boundary time for a while now. You cannot control the outcome of what happens WHEN you finally set the boundaries... but it is killing you MORE to sit under the same roof with him, while he spends his time in YOUR home talking to another woman... CONSTANTLY. He does it while your home, he does it with you in the same room... [censored], he does it with you in the bed with him.

You have proof of him choosing this OW over you daily. Your son's health issues.. he calls OW, his grandpa dying.. he calls OW. He knows you can SEE the texts on the phone bill, but continues to do it, not caring, and will continue to do so BECAUSE there are no boundaries.

I hate saying this to you because I love you and you are a dear friend to me. And it is going to SUCK if he decides to leave, but maybe he needs to leave for a bit, for your marriage to be saved. I know one thing, it is killing you inside the longer this goes on.

Can you call Verizon and turn off texting on his phone? Or block numbers from calling in? Is that something that can be done?