wife - hey, whats up. kevin - hey wife - blah, blah, blah wife - you there. kevin - hey, whats up. wife - blah, blah, blah kevin - oh. kevin - I'm sorry. but can we talk later? it confusing trying to chat with 3 people at once. I am trying to make plans for later. I'll call you OK?
A few minutes later kevin signs off.
Step 2 - Kevin never calls.
I am so going to do this the next time the opportunity presents itself. This is excellent SM.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
W, myself and my BIL will be having dinner together this Saturday night. My BIL is flying in on business and W wanted to see him. He has no idea what to talk to her about but would like to see her to. This should be an interesting evening. The kids won't be there. It will just be the 3 of us. Interestingly she knows where he stands regarding our M. I am not sure why she wants to have dinner with him. I guess just to say hi.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
No way. She's there to be sure you don't say anything that might put her in a "bad light". Did she just invite herself?
If so, I would just tell her it was a guys night out. Or have your BIL choose someplace where she wouldn't be caught dead in.
She wants to control the situation. And all I can see is BAD NEWS coming if this happens. If she insists on going, then tell your BIL you'll go out with him separately.
And besides she didn't want to talk about anything other than the kids right? I think with your BIL it would be much more than just the kids.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
She invited herself. BIL said it was fine and he would love to see her. He just doesn't know what to talk to her about as he has already run his course in trying to get her to reconsider the circumstances.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I'm not sure what there is for her to control in the situation. I talk to him regularly. We are spending the whole weekend together. I will be showing him around the metroplex. She knows he is adamantly opposed to what she is doing and he has let her know that many times.
I am actually really perplexed by the fact that she even wants to have dinner with him as she has written off everyone else in my family for being opposed to what she is doing.
Strange really. He is my BIL on my side of the family, not hers.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
What do you call an LBS who won't listen, learn or improve themself? Divorced.
KerryK,
I'm sure there is a point to this quote. I am sure you are saying that I am not learning, listening or improving myself. But I am.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
