Oh, that is so sad, that he didn't respond to you.
There is no OW here either.
I spent the summer researching...everything (that's how I found this site) I could find. I read and read and read (easy to do since he moved into the guest room in April). It was a tense summer as I was barely tolerating the situation, the rejection I was feeling was just too intense.
In September, while he was out of town, I found the kind of MC I wanted (based on the research I had done) and made an appointment for myself while he was gone. It still took me 10 days after he returned before I could even tell him about the appt. Soon after that, he moved back into the BR and we have had two joint MC sessions (the C's are a husband and wife); I have an individual appt. next week and we have another joint session at the end of the month. There has been a little progress, not as much as I would like, but it is still early in the going and we have a LONG way to go. It truly sucks. He thinks we can continue as we have, and he may even believe it, but we just can't...it WILL get better or it will get worse.
