@citygirl: Yes he is still at home. At this point I am of the belief that this is an EA. His friend pulled me to the side on Friday and wanted to talk to me. He said he knew that H and OW were txting and talking. He said that he had told him to knock it off and does not condone what he is doing. He told me that he was 100% confident that nothing physical had happened. We were physical on Sunday but have not been since. It was usually me that initiated and that makes me feel worse so I have not told him that i love him or hugged him or slept with him. I do make a point to kiss him goodbye when I leave.
Married 3/25/95 Together since 1990 Me 35 Him 37 Two Kids Daughter 8 and Son 4