Honestly, I wouldn't have checked. I am the zebra in occam's razor though.
I get that it was to build trust. Did it? If it helped, how did it and whom did it help?
You can plan for a D if you want to. I'm still not. Is it b/c I just can't live without my H? No. I can. I can even be happy. It's because I believe. I believe in myself. And, oddly enough in him. I also know what we are capable of together.
I think you are building a wall if you plan on a divorce. That you are prepared for the possibility is different to me.
If you bring it up to him, what do yu think it will accomplish?
