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you have veered drastically.

Veered from what? Sort of begs the question, doesn't it?

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walking the right path

Something of an absolutist statement -- "right" defined by whom?

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Is it your place to rescue her from her feelings? Nope. Is it your place to have some compassion and not judge despite the judgement given?

Not really talking about rescuing her from her feelings -- talking about whether or not I should intervene when she betrays these feelings in front of the children, who are too young to know how to cope with them, but for whom (as @Coach points out above) the word "ruined" is somewhat problematic. She can have all the feelings she wants -- but is it appropriate to share every feeling one has with small children?

That's the topic du jour.