I guess I would just rather let him be the one to expose it. I really have no other reason than that.
If you're OK with letting your husband be involved with another man's wife while you wait for her husband to figure it out, I guess I can't say much more.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement