Well I have thought of that and that is the exact reason I have not done it yet. I have been secretly hoping that her husband is smart enough to figure it out and make contact with me.
What difference would that make? Exposing the affair could cause both of you to lose your spouses, regardless of who contacts who first.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement