My high hopes, maybe a pipe dream maybe not, involved a life beyond my wife with a wonderful woman and mother who didn't deserve to be hurt when my wife begged for her last chance.
Thank you for being real again.
Thank you for being human again.
I think you were very torn up also over the course of events that happened when your wife decided to come home, as I don't think you really expected her to.
How did you deal with that?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
I was pissed and I really expected her to fail, and I was counting on it, I thought it was just a matter of time.
THAT taught me a very valuable lesson...I think the most valuable. I love my wife. I will be married to her until I die...or she says she loves me but isn't in love with me again. : )
I love myself, and I do not need her to live a full life, I am a complete person, anyone else is just like ketchsup on fries...a great compliment, but not needed, just better. KWIM?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Signing papers...is just the legal, make the lawyers happy in my book. Brother, when I was done with her in...June 06? I was as far as I was concerned divorced.
I was done as well, yet the day I finally was declared divorced I balled like a baby. It's not just a piece of paper dude, it's a significant document, the same as your marriage certificate.
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Seriously, did you mean to come off like a dickhead there?
Sort of, more than that I meant to make a statement and maybe get an answer......
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Maybe I deserve that maybe I don't. I have done the time in my own head and kicked my own ass enough for the first marriage, but there was more than enough bad crap in it to cover all parties AND have enough left over for a picnic basket of crap sandwiches.
You do... my question is this, did you express your remorse to your 1st wife Jack? I am asking this in all seriousness. If you did, what did you say to her? If you didnt, what would you say if given the chance?
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What do you call an LBS who won't listen, learn or improve themself?
You do... my question is this, did you express your remorse to your 1st wife Jack? I am asking this in all seriousness. If you did, what did you say to her? If you didnt, what would you say if given the chance?
I did, and please take the smile for what is worth, because face to face, I'd answer the same way with a smile AND a Beer.
I did, and that is none of your [censored] business. : )
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Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
You do... my question is this, did you express your remorse to your 1st wife Jack? I am asking this in all seriousness. If you did, what did you say to her? If you didnt, what would you say if given the chance?
I did, and please take the smile for what is worth, because face to face, I'd answer the same way with a smile AND a Beer.
I did, and that is none of your [censored] business. : )
Well,I wasnt asking to get all personal with you. I was more asking because I would love to know what true remorse would look like from someone who had been in the same place as my wife.
Seriously, I was not asking to pry. I am very curious, I see a lot of folks on this board that say there spouse is showing remorse, but how do they really know?
I got a guy with bigger balls athrone and a choir of angels who gets to judge me.
Bone head. ; )
I wouldn't be caught dead in gay asss pirate boots dude....
Oh and don't forget your talking to a Jew so I have no idea who you are referring to. The only guy I know who sits on a throne surrounded by angels is Reggie Jackson in the early 1980's.
