Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Well, Since H has been pulling away I checked his email today to see whats going on. He changed the password. Its his right to do this but when he moved home we made all of his and my passwords the same as an indication of improving the trust issue between us(was recommended in a book about getting past affairs.

I haven't been checking his email for awhile so I'm not sure when he changed it-I think either right before or right after his NYC trip. My heart is racing like there is something going on...

Do I say something to H? He has assumed in the past that I check his email periodically even though he has also expressed resentment about that. Do I ignore it and let him do his thing and plan for a D?