Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails

What's the best way to handle this? Why is she now answering the phone?

First (red) part -- GOOD, IMPORTANT QUESTION. This is where you need to be focusing.

Second (green) part -- NOT important. Who cares? Don't mindread -- big DB no-no.

OK, how you should have handled it was with a pleasant, upbeat (but not annoyingly so) "Hi! How's it going (no pause), is S13 there? I promised I'd call him."

You don't want to look like you're AVOIDING her, as it makes you look some combination of weak and afraid.

Puppy


thanks again Puppy, this is such a helpful reply.

Last edited by Awoken; 11/11/09 05:32 PM.
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