Well I have thought of that and that is the exact reason I have not done it yet. I have been secretly hoping that her husband is smart enough to figure it out and make contact with me. THere is no way in HELL that I will allow my children to interact with this woman. I will do whatever I have to in order to protect them. THat is why I have been so on the fence about what to do. That is why I am so confused. I dont ever want them to blame me for their dad leaving. I have been hoping that he would grow the balls and do it.
Married 3/25/95 Together since 1990 Me 35 Him 37 Two Kids Daughter 8 and Son 4