Oh, I have pictures. I have phone and txt records. I have emails. Proof enough for me that there is at least an EA.
Then it's time to put the brakes on their party train.
However, keep in mind that this is not a bluffing situation. If you do this, you have to understand what the outcomes may be.
At the very least, he and the OW may end up living together for a while until their relationship falls apart. (Affairs are about secrecy and fantasy; take both away and the affair will most likely end.)
Know that doing this could cause your husband to walk away for good because you "betrayed" him, regardless of if he stays with the OW or not.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
