In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

NAGL - yes, I have read your thread. I will take heed to your (and others) words and keep my eyes and ear open to the possibility. It is so hard to imagine though knowing him and her. It is such an unlikely pairing.

sdharrell - Thank you for your words. I will go read your thread momentarily.

My H says he doesn't love me and cannot see a way to get it back. THEN he said I could have turned it around anytime I wanted to but I waited to long so it is gone. THEN he said IF it were to turn around it would take a long time. When I asked what he would do if he found himself wanting to be with me again, his response was "well, you will have probably moved on by then and I will realize what I lost".

Maybe that last sentence was a subconscious push to follow the DB/DR way of life? LOL!

I have only read DR 80% of it. It is so much easier to do computer related things while caring for the kids than read a book. I feel like I was in a fog and don't remember a thing I read. I will read more tonight at work and move to DB.