Thank you guys. No I don't think it is respectful for him to talk about any of that. I do not think about him all day trust me these last 2 weeks have been about me and now that has happened I can see my life without him in and I am just fine. It is just things like this that tick me off. And I don't know how to respond that is why I got on here so you guys could help me out and you have great advice which I will follow for sure. How do I know if it is working???