I went through months of MC, but not in the correct mindset, and watched, basically, as MC just validated my STBXW's mind that 'she was done'
Those exact words were spoken after our last MC meeting...
I believe that what coach saying about agreeing with her, will allow her to remove the pressure she has on herself about that, and any guilt, and possibly allow other thoughts in there place. Possibly.
Kind of just rambling, as my sitch didn't work out as I wanted, but hope you can do better than I did!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
