Katie - STOP wondering what every comment he makes is about. You won't figure anything out until he does. And chances are he won't figure out anything anytime soon. So stop channeling so much of your precious time and energy on what your H is doing and start channeling all that energy on YOU.
Indeed. As I've been telling someone else on this forum, you literally cannot figure out what he is thinking, because he doesn't know what he is thinking.
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
Do you really think its appropriate or respectful to you that your H that just dumped you and told you he wanted a divorce texted you about having sex? Do you feel that is a reasonable discussion to have via text?
Also, this.
He wants to make grown-up decisions like ending his marriage? He gets to talk about them like an adult.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
