So he just text me "So are we done now with sex too?" This was because last night when he initated it I turned him down, I was not going to have sex with him after he told me earlier he wanted a divorce??? What is that all about, and what should I reply back to him??
Boundary time!
"I understand that you're trying to figure out if you want to stay in this marriage, but being intimate with you is causing too much confusion. So until you figure out what you want to do, I think it's better that we don't have sex."
This puts the ball back in his court.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
