Yes, I am serious but you have to be as well. Love her enougth to let her go if she is not happy with you. How's that MC going trying to change your wife's mind? Your wife knows she has control over you as long as you are fighting for the marriage. Drop the rope stop fighting her and agree with her. What's the worst that will happen? She might divorce you????
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.