I am sorry to hear about your friend, but now is a good chance to help him before it gets too bad. Also remember, none of you is divorced yet. There is still time. It looks dim right now, but you have to stay positive. Nothing has been finalized and from what I have read many people on here have had the divorces stalled and then worked it out. Have faith.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89