Would one point of MC be simply getting the WAS to think
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the WAS says I'm done
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think about their feelings, what the future looks like
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my feelings won't ever change
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whether the issues in the M are fatal or not
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I'm done
Ever try and confront someone and get them to defend a negative position. A position you know is problematic for them. Agree with them and see what happens. She is just saying what she is feeling at the time.
"You're right you are done. Your feelings will never change. I have decided that it's in my and the family's best interests then that we get this divorce over as soon as possible."
Let her off the hook from having to defend her position, that's a no-win situation. Decide for yourself and watch her change her tune. Because now as a WAS remember, believe nothing of what you say. You are in a fog. That's why a WAS won't get you out of limboland. Flip the roles. Emotion is your friend.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
You are in a fog. That's why a WAS won't get you out of limboland. Flip the roles. Emotion is your friend.
