Say you worked for a company for 10 years. And one day your boss says to you that you are fired and it really shocks you. And a week later he calls and tells you that even though he said you were fired he would like you to still work there when he needs you but he wont be paying you or offering you any benefits and instead of working at a desk you will have to sit on the floor and work. You won't get any breaks and when he does need you he will give you 5 minutes advance notice.
Tell me what you would say to that offer? Would you work for free on a moments notice while sitting on a dusty floor while your boss decides if you are worthy enough to be invited back for "normal" employment OR would you tell him to drop dead?
Essentially your H is doing just that to you and you are allowing it.
Yes, all people are different but if you spend some time reading the thousands of threads on this site or any other divorce site you will see ALL WAS's are the same. They are not unique at all. Your WAS is not different. Trust me.
