Oh, fogot to mention that my S talked me into taking them to Chili's for dinner last night. I think that is the first time I have taken them alone (b/c of D4) to sit down and eat at an actual restaurant. We had a really good time, d4 got a little loud but was good over all. My S9 is soooo sweet and such a little "grownup" and he always holds the door for me and etc.
The kids and I both are so much better and more relaxed nowadays. It feels really good. You do get to that point where you can feel the black cloud of constant stress lift and just want to enjoy life. It would help me greatly if ex would leave me alone, but I am trying to set boundaries and do what I can with that, yet knowing at the same time that I cannot control him or what he does.
Oh, and this little bit of info came my way last night... Tinkerbell's bday is in 20 days!!! As she is just so excited about on her m/s. LOL That means that when we sep. last year, she had either JUST turned 18 when they started seeing each other... OR more likely, since they already worked together and I don't think that they just MAGICALLY hooked up right when we split up, that she was probably just 17 whenever they started seeing each other. That sh*t makes me want to vomit. He is truly sick... I mean, hello! Our son is 9! EWWWWWWWWWW.
Last edited by SoCo; 11/11/0904:08 PM.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
That means that when we sep. last year, she had either JUST turned 18 when they started seeing each other... OR more likely, since they already worked together and I don't think that they just MAGICALLY hooked up right when we split up, that she was probably just 17 whenever they started seeing each other. That sh*t makes me want to vomit. He is truly sick... 
I mean, hello! Our son is 9! EWWWWWWWWWW. 