Yes, I have started. I plan on moving out of the house next month. She will move back in and buy my half of the house after the D in Feb. I know that I cant sit around but I have am moving to another city to find a job. When I told her a month or so ago that I was moving on, I also told her that nothing is final until the D papers are signed. She is graduating next month and its another torn in my side to not be able to celebrate it with her, especially since I supported her emotionally and financially the past 4 years. I feel that once I move out with my stuff, then that will truly be the end of the M. Its touch making life decisions, especially in the state of mind that I am in.
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M-11y
D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10