I understand all that but at the same time people are different.
Not when it comes to this; walk-away spouses have very predictable sets of behavior.
Originally Posted By: Katie
I just wanted to see if maybe you guys would see it as him not wanting to divorce if he was texting me all the time when I was gone and got in the shower with me when that never happens.
There's no way to tell. You can't read his mind, because he's not 100% what he wants either.
He wants things to go according to his plan; as CityGirl says, he started the divorce talk so he gets to reap the consequences. He could also be cake-eating -- getting what he wants out of the relationship without having to put any effort into you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
