I never thought I would be here

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To add to that, she had told me last night that 6 months into our marriage that she had doubts (Next month would have made 7 years). She said if we hadn't had our daughter she probably would have left me within the first year. From what she was saying, I gathered that she has been thinking about this for a long time. The past 2 weeks is probably what kick started the initiative to divorce for her. The fact that she is listening to some of her friends doesn't seem to be helping either. She had told me last night that one of her girl friends had told her to "sh*t or get off the pot" when it came to getting the divorce, so in her mind it's full speed ahead.