Update

[sdharrell74]

I have have a rough week. I did go to the party Friday night with H. OW kept trying to talk to me throughout the night. I tried to get close to her husband but never really got the opportunity without being obvious. I did look at our mobile records and saw that they were txting each other under the same roof the entire night. During the party, my H friend pulled me outside because he wanted to talk to me. He asked me if things were ok with H and I. I knew that he knew at that point. We had a long talk that night and he confided in me that he had pulled the same crap on his wife. He told me not to throw my H out until he could have a talk with him. He wants to tell him to knock it off and told me that my H had even told him that we had gone to counceling. That shocked me since H doesn't talk to anyone.

Saturday night he had to be at the firestation at 8 pm and I informed him that I was going out and then asked what time he was leaving to head to work. He said go ahead and go now. I tolf him that he didnt understand, " I am going out and will not be back for a while." He said where are you going? I said out with my BFF. He said "OH". After I left my mother came over to sit with the kids. She told me that my H had made the comment to her that I had gone out but he had no idea where. She did not divulge any info. At 12:51 am I received a forwarded joke from H. I did not respond. On Sunday morning he returned home from work around 9 am and I gave him a polite "good morning". Then I went and took a shower and then sat on the bed putting on my makeup. He made his way into the bedroom and with a major attitude said "WHat crawled up your @ss?" I said nothing why? He said why cant you speak to me to which i responded to him that I had said good morning when i got home. Later that day we went to see his grandfather. He had lung cancer. He was really bad off. Monday my h had to work. His schedule is a 24 hour shift so he works 8 am to 8 am. At 12am tuesday morning while he was at work he started txting me. He was actually really nice and seemed concerned about why i was up so late and couldnt sleep. At 6:30am his mom called me and told me that his grandfather had died at 3:30am. I had to break that news to him. At 9 am we had an appt with a surgeon. Our 4 year old son has to have surgery for a hernia and a retracted testicle. I am worried sick for my baby. I found out today that he was on the phone with the OW the whole way to the dr and then made sure to call her when we left. I am so sick over this. We are supposed to go to Las Vegas next Monday. The trip has been paid for and planned since August. It was his damn idea to go on the trip. THen all of a sudden he hasnt been happy in a long time. Hmmmm. Seems funny that he was happy enough with me before he met her to plan a week long trip and send me sexy txts and video and flirt via txt. Now I guess all those go to her. Today, I hate him.