Smiley- Like many others I am sure, I have followed your year of turmoil but not had much to comment on as it seemed that you were walking the right path.....
But I think the past month or so you have veered drastically.
I read a lot of self-righteousness in your attitudes and even though you fully admit that you are now the WALK AWAY does it make it right???
I truly believe the key to any marriage/relationship is compassion. When my wife and I began the process of coming back together, you me believe brother that I got fourths of helpings in the lessons of learning to have compassion for my wife and what SHE had been through as well. Having been in your shoes I know that it is easy to rebuff someone like me telling you this, but I used to read compassion in your postings. Not so much anymore....
Is it your place to rescue her from her feelings? Nope. Is it your place to have some compassion and not judge despite the judgement given? That's for you to decide.
It kills me to read your posts now because it is right there dangling in front of you. All I hear is an eye for an eye....
