Funny, when I was seeing my C, the first thing we faced were my past issues. I don't have too many past issues, but it really helped me and my C establish a foundation to work through my more recent problems. I am fortunate in that I grew up in a healthy household with both parents.

The real damage occured about 4 years into my marriage. It became a nightmare of me neglecting myself to help my XW through her very serious problems.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08