Oh, and no I did not mention this website or the book to her. I did not tell her I was trying a plan to get him back. As far as she knows I am giving him his space to figure things out.

He told me last night he separated our cell bills into two different plans (still on the same bill) so that once it would be easier to split up later. We were previously on a family plan. Great, just another step to NOT being a family. He said that 'since I won't sign the divorce papers' he will just get things ready until then. The only reason the car insurance isn't separated is for the multi-car discount.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month