Thank you all for your great advice. Last night before he got home I told him I was going to eat with my brother's fiance. So he got home and took our two boys with him. I didn't even get over to her house before he starts texting me asking if I was trying to avoid him or going to see someone else??? Then throughout the evening over the course of the 3 hours I was gone he kept texting me things??? Then I get home and excuse this but was taking a shower and he gets in with me?? Ok that does not happen with us and hasn't in forever. So what does that mean? I asked him what he was doing and he said just taking a shower, ok but you never just take a shower at the same time as me.
Then we are laying in bed and he starts talking to me about things and I just reply to them ok. Caught him off guard because I didn't argue with him or cry and beg. So then he tries after this to start kissing me etc...and I am just like what are you doing, you just told me today you wanted a divorce and you didn't feel anything for me, so what are you doing all of this for??? Can anyone help me I am so confused!!!