Grrr, whether you believe it or not to be true about beeing a drag, it does not matter, you were a drag in his mind. It is time not to be a drag any longer, you just have to show it to him indirectly.
For example, please get some plans on going out this Friday, or go out for happy hour tonight or tomorrow with some buddies, perferably a few male buddies. You are now the fun happy girl that he use to know. And then actually go out and have fun for yourself.
Get a new perfume, when you leave for your night out, look smoking hot, get a new hair style, wear those sexy thong thingys. And if you do not feel like doing it, make your self do it. Fake it till you make it.
You can do this, make him wonder what the hell you are doing, he will then eventually start going to MC to try to get you back and not doing it just for you, and showing everyone that he did all he could to try to save the marriage.
