I don't think you are over him. My ex recently got engaged to his affair partner. To me it was a shock but also felt like give the bad guys another point. It bothered me for a few days and I let it go. I can't do a thing about it and I KNOW I don't want him back.

I hope you to get to a counselor because I think you need to work this out so it doesn't affect your new marriage. You didn't say but how soon after the divorce did you remarry?

kat


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