Hey JR, Sorry I didn't write back sooner - but I'm glad you got some great feedback (as always) from Michelle. I was out of town for while visiting my son and friends - and just trying to work on taking better care of myself.
I think it's wonderful that you'll get to spend those 7 days with your boys. Last year I ended up celebrating Christmas on Thanksgiving - since I had both of my boys home with me for that holiday - but not for Christmas.
As for your W's trip...that is interesting - and I think it's great that you acted and continue to act as if - and just do what you feel is right in response to her request.
Do you find that as you work on yourself more you discover more patience in yourself? I know you've been waiting for a long time - but sometimes it seems like that's just what is most necessary for a relationship to heal.
