Hope you are doing ok, I agree with everyone else here, yanking your pillows, and doing aggressive things like this, accidentally hitting you, is not about being playful.
I hope that you are ok, and please be very careful. Have you considered different sleeping arrangements?
Also, if you told him you were uncomfortable with what he was doing, what would his reaction be? Are you afraid to tell him how this makes you feel? If so, there is a reason that you are, and a valid one.
He is trying to exert control over you by doing these things, whether he even realizes this or not doesn't matter.
Please be careful.. (((Bunny)))
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."