My W is due to be here today and I said I would text her to let her know if my D's mum would be back from holiday on time or whether I would need her to babysit for me.
Got a reply that she is happy to babysit it, however she is hoping the ferry isn't cancelled so she will be back on time.
You see my W went away to an island on Monday for work (it may even have been Sunday she went). I thought she was actually back yesterday but it's today. From looking at the timetable and judging the time of her text she will be back here at around 1pm.
So, she has been away for 2-3 days. Hasn't seem OM. Comes home for 2-3 hours. Comes around here to her step-D and H and then spends the next 5 hours.
She also agreed to this extra babysitting time on Saturday (as I only found out then that I might need her) and she agreed right away without speaking to OM.
She also cancelled her night out with OM this Friday (the dancing one I mentioned) when she found out I was going to go. Again without speaking to OM.
It is very very hard for me not to read anything into this (although all I'm reading into it is its strangeness), but as I've said before ... does anybody see anything strange with this? I know if I was OM, I'd be pretty p*ssed off! I also know when you get into a new R then you tolerate a lot, but come on. Please. Would YOU tolerate your new partner spending that kind of time with your H and step-D?
This guy must clearly be a saint as I couldn't do it. Taking everything into account I'd be as insecure as hell as it is without this!
Is it me? Somebody?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
