Originally Posted By: cutterbug
I would keep the list to close friends. Or friends with important history to the both of you.

The world does not need to know your story. If she needs to tell every single person it then let her.

You need to say it once. Then not say it again. Unless asked. Then speak the truth.



Only problem with that is I don't know who his close friends are as I don't know him. I do know some of her close friends however.


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"